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Suggestions on parenting children

Here are some helpful tips for how to interact with children.

Do not accept children’s excuses for forgetting their responsibilities
Have children repeat what you asked them to do
Use a timer to help children understand the allotted time to comply with directions
Children are responsible for replacement of lost, broken or damaged things
If children are unable to follow directions while doing an activity, then they should not do the activity
Use written directions along with verbal directions
Supervise your children as much as they need, to be successful
Do not give in or argue with your child, you are the responsible adult
If children do not pick up room before bed, pick up all objects and confiscate for a period of time
Do not replace or get more toys, games, etc. until children show ability to take care of the ones they currently have
Have children learn organizational skills
Give children directions with only two or three steps
Deliver directions in a supportive way
Be consistent in your expectations
Establish a regular routine
Teach time management skills
Have your child ask for help, do not rescue them
Do not allow your child to question you in public
Let your child know that total fairness is impossible
Let your child know they need to ask for permission well in advance to do things
Let your child know it is not okay to ask for permission in front of others or in public places
Let your child know that privileges can be suspended immediately