Suggestions on parenting children

Two children washing dishes while mom is watching with a smile on her face Two children washing dishes while mom is watching with a smile on her face
  • Do not accept children’s excuses for forgetting their responsibilities
  • Have children repeat what you asked them to do
  • Use a timer to help children understand the allotted time to comply with directions
  • Children are responsible for replacement of lost, broken or damaged things
  • If children are unable to follow directions while doing an activity, then they should not do the activity
  • Use written directions along with verbal directions
  • Supervise your children as much as they need, to be successful
  • Do not give in or argue with your child, you are the responsible adult
  • If children do not pick up room before bed, pick up all objects and confiscate for a period of time
  • Do not replace or get more toys, games, etc. until children show ability to take care of the ones they currently have
  • Have children learn organizational skills
  • Give children directions with only two or three steps
  • Deliver directions in a supportive way
  • Be consistent in your expectations
  • Establish a regular routine
  • Teach time management skills
  • Have your child ask for help, do not rescue them
  • Do not allow your child to question you in public
  • Let your child know that total fairness is impossible
  • Let your child know they need to ask for permission well in advance to do things
  • Let your child know it is not okay to ask for permission in front of others or in public places
  • Let your child know that privileges can be suspended immediately