Positive communication in the workplace

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Here are some helpful tips for communicating effectively at work.
  • Begin discussions in an inviting, rational tone
  • Remember body language
  • Speak clearly in a confident voice
  • Use “I” statements: “I would like,” “I would appreciate”
  • Use “I feel” statements: “I feel ____ when ____”
  • Use factual descriptions when someone has upset you; do not exaggerate, label or judge
  • Keep requests simple
  • Focus on present concerns only, do not generalize
  • Do not lecture
  • Be specific about concerns
  • Base objections on behaviors, not personality
  • Be willing to compromise to create a win/win situation
  • Do not “one-up” others
  • Listen and clarify if needed; acknowledge that you hear the other person’s position
  • Don’t assume you know the other person’s motives
  • Ask questions for more information